Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Colorado Bound

Sometime in the Spring, Rick's boss, Paul, called him with some information. Paul told him that the Recruiting Manager in Denver was planning a retirement. Paul told Rick to dust off his resume and send it to him to review before officially applying.

The fact that Paul was also the hiring manager for this position gave us a very strong impression that Rick was going to get this job. The opportunity was a good one too. The position would require Rick to manage all the recruiters in Montana, Wyoming, Colorado, Kansas and Nebraska. This was just the type of position Rick has been dreaming of.

Since we had only moved into our house a couple years ago, there is still some decorating that hadn't been completed yet. To top it off, our yard was a mess, the closets needed some major decluttering, and there was dust on the blinds an inch thick.

Since the real estate market in our area is not doing well, we knew our house needed to be pristine, so we began working on projects to make our house shine that we wouldn't regret if Rick didn't end up getting the job.

We painted. We hung pictures. I made pillows. We painted some more. We cleaned, and cleaned, and cleaned. We accessorized the bedrooms.

We jazzed up the yard with new bark, new sod, a fence, an arbor, and a sweet deck.

Of course we didn't do this alone. We are blessed with many amazing friends, family and neighbors who kindly sacrificed their time for us. We would have never done it without them.

Rick had interview, after interview, after interview. I believe it was 4 total. He finally got an offer and we had to act fast. Once the offer was made, he was in Denver within days. Starting at the end of June he wad dividing his time between Seattle and Denver. By the first week of July our house was on the market. By the end of July, he was in Denver permanently and only home on the weekends.

Although it has been one of the largest trials of my life, time and time again, it has been proven to me that we are supposed to do this. Things are falling into place and small miracles continue to happen.

The first day our house was on the market we had a viewing. Less than two weeks later we had an offer from this family. It took another few weeks to reach mutual acceptance. But I still haven't reached personal acceptance.

There are a lot of things I'm still working on accepting. The hardest thing is coming to terms with the idea that we will moving from the state that we grew up in and always lived in except for college. We will be taking our girls away from their cousins and grandparents that they love dearly. We will be leaving our best friends. We will be losing an amazing ward. We will be giving up our house that was practically perfect in every way. Don't even get me started on the difference between the purchase price of our house 2.5 years ago compared to the sales price. Ouch.

Although the list of reasons why I don't want to leave is long, there is one thing on the list of reason's why we should go that trumps the rest. We know we should go without a doubt. That is the one thing I can't deny. So we are pushing forward, trying to keep the faith, but boy is it hard.

10 comments:

Janae said...

We are so excited for you guys! I am so glad we were able to see you in Seattle, and I guess we'll have to plan a trip to Denver!! Good luck in everything!

Cara said...

You already know how much I can empathize with you Anna Marie! It's going to be hard but I think you guys will ultimately find, like we have, that it's fun being your own cohesive little unit. Nathan and I have become closer and our little family spends so much more quality time together. Of course you will still miss your family like crazy and long for them on Sunday evenings but you'll get used to it (sad to say but true). You can still go visit your families and they'll come visit you and the time you spend with them will be so much more meaningful. Hang in there. You'll get through it, I promise! Call me if you ever need to chat. 801-331-8304. Oh and BTW, we are serious about coming to visit if you'll have us!

Amanda said...

Although our move wasn't as huge, I know so many of the feelings you're talking about. My mind keeps returning to the talk by Elder Holland, "An High Priest of Good Things to Come." It is such a great talk and when I get discouraged about moving forward, (in spite of knowing that it's completely the right thing), I rely on the messages it provides. I'm excited for your new adventure! It will probably continue to be challenging for a while, but there are still amazing things in store!

Theresa Walker said...

Good luck to you and your family on your new adventure. Your new ward and neighborhood will be lucky to have you and you'll have tons of friends in no time.

Angie said...

We felt the same way 6 years ago when we moved here. We went on faith, and have found many things to confirm that we did the right thing. I'm sure it will be the same for you. We'll miss you!

Penny said...
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Penny said...

I believe you are doing the right thing sweetie, even though it is going to be sad not having the option to drive over any time I like, or visa versa. I look forward to that webcam, emails and phone calls. Oh... and trips.

You will fit in perfectly in your new home and ward. I feel certain there is a good reason for you to be going there. You must be needed?!

The hardest part will be the family parties/gatherings. We'll have to make up for them when you come home for visits.

Amber M said...

Just keep on blogging, AM, and it'll seem more like adventure than sentence. I'm happy as long as I can still peep into your life.

Life is crazy, though, isn't it? So unpredictable. "How did I get here?" is my daily mantra. ;)

Good Luck!!

Lisita said...

That's how we felt when we moved to WA 9 years ago. In so many ways it didn't make sense to leave everything and everyone but we knew we were supposed to go. You will miss all that you left but you will gain far more than you ever thought possible.

Kristen said...

What an amazing opportunity. I know exactly how you feel when we moved up there from CA. All our family was in CA, and we were all alone. Yes, the ward is amazing, and I still haven't found one just like it. It is amazing, and I still wish I was back in the ward, but you'll have a great group of friends you can count on there. Good luck with your adventures in Colorado!